Why "Trying" Is the Word You Need to Remove from Your Vocabulary
In the realm of manifestation, wellness, and self-mastery, language plays a crucial role. The words we use reflect our internal mindset and deeply influence the outcomes we experience in life. One word that consistently undermines progress, yet is used so often without thought, is "trying."
You’ve likely heard it—or even said it yourself: “I’m trying to get healthier,” or “I’m trying to get that project done.” On the surface, it seems harmless, a way of expressing effort. But if you look deeper, "trying" is much more than a filler word—it represents hesitation, doubt, and an unwillingness to commit fully. At Wombniversity School of Thought, we teach that there is no such thing as trying. It’s either done, or it’s not. So why does “trying” still find its way into our lives, and why is it essential to eliminate it?
What Does "Trying" Really Mean?
When you say you’re trying to do something, what you’re really saying is that you haven’t fully committed to the task. You’re in a state of limbo, halfway between desire and action. You’re acknowledging the possibility of an outcome without fully stepping into the actions necessary to make it happen.
In essence, "trying" is an excuse in disguise.
It allows you to maintain the illusion of progress while giving yourself an out in case things don’t go as planned. If you don’t succeed, you can say, “Well, at least I tried.” But trying isn’t the same as doing. It is a placeholder for indecision. When you try, you are neither here nor there; you exist in a space where action is muddled by doubt.
Why "Trying" is a Manifestation Blocker
The act of manifestation is a clear and decisive process. It is rooted in aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with what you expect to materialize. Manifestation thrives on clarity, and "trying" introduces ambiguity into the equation. Instead of committing fully to your intention, you’re telling the universe that you are undecided. The result? Mixed signals, delays, or no manifestation at all.
When you say, “I am trying to manifest abundance,” the vibration behind those words is scattered. You’re not fully embodying the energy of abundance. Instead, you’re projecting uncertainty, and that is what the universe mirrors back to you. Contrast this with “I am manifesting abundance.” The latter carries certainty, commitment, and a sense of inevitability. There is no room for doubt.
Commitment vs. "Trying"
Consider this: When you set out to accomplish something meaningful, would you tell yourself you’re trying to do it, or would you simply do it? The difference between those two mindsets is massive.
When you say, “I am doing it,” you’re already engaged in the process. You have mentally and emotionally committed to the outcome, and every step you take moves you closer to your goal. On the other hand, "trying" creates distance between you and your goal. It places the outcome in the future, always just out of reach, because you have not fully stepped into the power of action.
This same principle applies in relationships, career goals, health, and personal development. When you shift from "trying" to doing, you remove the element of hesitation and take ownership of your power. This is the energy of true manifestation. You make things happen, not by trying, but by committing fully to the outcome you desire.
Shifting from "Trying" to Doing
The first step to eliminating "trying" from your life is to become aware of when and why you use it. Do you say you’re trying because you fear failure? Are you avoiding full commitment because it feels safer to stay in the comfort of uncertainty?
Once you recognize the underlying reasons for using "trying," you can begin to shift your language—and your mindset. Here are a few ways to make that shift:
Commit to Action – Replace "trying" with “I am doing.” When you say you are doing something, you engage fully with the present moment. Whether it’s taking the first step in a project or making a decision, your commitment starts with action, not thought.
Shift Your Energy – When you decide to eliminate "trying," notice how your energy shifts. Instead of feeling uncertain or hesitant, you begin to feel empowered and focused. You embody the energy of accomplishment rather than possibility.
Hold Yourself Accountable – Don’t allow yourself to fall back into the habit of saying "I’m trying." When you catch yourself, pause and reframe. Ask yourself, “Am I doing this or not?” This level of self-awareness holds you accountable for your actions and your words.
Practice Intentional Language – Words are powerful. The way you speak about your actions and goals shapes your reality. Speak with intention, and commit to using words that reflect clarity, action, and purpose. Your language should align with the reality you want to create.
Final Thoughts: Erasing "Trying" From Your Vocabulary
If you want to create meaningful change in your life, start by eliminating "trying" from your vocabulary. Remember, you’re either doing it or you’re not. There is no middle ground.
By making this simple shift, you open the door to stronger intentions, more decisive actions, and clearer manifestations. You align with the energy of creation, allowing the universe to mirror back the certainty and commitment you bring to your own life.
The next time you find yourself tempted to say you’re "trying," pause. Reframe it. And instead, say: “I am doing this.” Because once you commit fully, the universe meets you with infinite possibilities.
